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Black Girls Rock, a non-profit organization that mentors and empowers young women, is now accepting applications for its 2013 youth enrichment program. If you’ve never heard of Black Girls Rock!, or missed their awards show (which aired on BET last month) which honored positive black women in entertainment, check some show highlights out here.

BlackGirlsRock, Inc.

Black girls rocking | http://www.blackgirlsrockinc.com

PROGRAM DESCRIPTION:

BLACK GIRLS ROCK! Inc. is a 501(c)3 nonprofit youth empowerment and mentoring organization. The youth enrichment programs at BLACK GIRLS ROCK! empower young women through dynamic art and culture based workshops and  also encourage positive identity development, strong life skills, cultural investigation, critical thinking, and academic enrichment. Read more about the program here.

For admission into the youth enrichment program, candidates must complete a competitive application process beginning with the submission of their application form.

In order to download the application, please visit the website. Please review the eligibility requirements, terms, and conditions  before proceeding with the application and feel free to contact us at the BLACK GIRLS ROCK! office if you have any questions or concerns.

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Woman Moderator Petition

NJ Girls Elena Tsemberis, Emma Axelrod and Sammi Siegel start a petition for change | http://www.huffingtonpost.com

If you aren’t old enough to vote, you may not care about the next election. You should, but sometimes it’s hard to get excited about something that affects you so greatly and yet, you have no say in. I would, however, urge all of you to share your opinions and thoughts about the election with the adults  in your family and in your lives who are old enough to vote. Who knows? Your opinion may change (or help someone else figure out) the way they think and plan to vote.

So, while you may not watch the next presidential debate (I watched the first one with my 14-year-old nephew, so who knows), here’s one thing you should know about/reason why you should care ~ there will be a woman moderating the debate, thanks, in part, to three New Jersey high school students who petitioned for there to be one.

Basics- so the presidential debate has the two candidates (President Barack Obama and Republican nominee Mitt Romney) face off in a live televised discussion about the issues/where they stand/what their plan is for America. They are basically trying to convince those people who are undecided that they are the best person for the job and get the people who’ve already decided excited about showing up at the polls on November 6th. The debate is moderated by a journalist who puts on his/her impartiality fairness hat and tries to ask the questions that the American public wants to know and keep them each from talking over each other and going over their allotted response time. This happens to varying degrees of success.

The first debate, earlier this month, was moderated by Jim Lehrer and, if you’re interested, you can google what most people thought of it. (Basically, the president lamed out, Romney did his thing and the moderator didn’t moderate). The vice-presidential debate, held last week, was much better and an actual debate. (Vice President Biden got all in Congressman Paul Ryan’s specifics, Ryan made some pointed jabs and the moderator ~ O.G. journalist Martha Raddatz  ~ held it down.

The debate tonight is going to be the final presidential debate, where the president and Mitt Romney face off again. And it’s really important for both to do well. The point of all of this that may matter to you is that CNN reporter Candy Crowley is moderating it ~ this is he first time a woman has done so in 20 years and is partly due to the petition started by Emma Axelrod, Elena Tsemberis and Sammi Siegel. After learning in their high school civics class that the last woman to moderate a presidential debate was in 1992 (!), they stated a petition at change.org. The petition was a huge success, garnered over 118,000 signatures and lots of support from public figures for their call for a woman moderator. And, well, they got their wish.

“It’s important for teenage girls to see women with political power,” Elena Tsemberis told MassLive.com. “The more we only see men in positions of authority, the more girls teach themselves to believe we’re not as worthy or important or capable as men.” Source

Side note: If you have an issue you’re really passionate about, you might want to consider starting a change.org petition. Some of them really take off and who knows, once people know what you’re fighting for/against, additional help may come pouring in.

October is (among a million other things) Anti-Bullying Awareness Month. What started out as a week-long event back in 2006, sponsored by an organization called Pacer, has grown over the years to a month-long recognition and tomorrow is Unity Day.

What’s Unity Day? I’m glad you asked- basically you wear orange (t-shirt, ribbon, bracelet, shoes, whatever) to show that you recognize and support the cause. Oh, and it’s probably a good idea not to bully anyone while doing it. Not only because it’s mean and hurtful, but also because New York has Anti-Bullying laws in place to try to help protect students.

I saw this PSA on youtube that I thought was pretty decent and I thought I’d pass it along. It’s an entire 60 seconds long. Please watch it. Be safe out there and be kind to one another. If you can’t be kind, don’t be cruel.

If you need some help, or know someone who needs help, ask for it. There are people and places and websites out there to try to make this thing called growing up a little easier.

I almost forgot-

Last week, Terrence J and Rocsi said goodbye to the 106 & Park stage after seven years. Terrence J. has a new gig hosting Entertainment Tonight (definitely a good look) and Rocsi is pursing other opportunities, like acting, I believe.

106 & Park

Terrence J & Rocsi host their last show on the 106 & Park stage | http://www.bet.com

The BET crew (old and new) sent them off proper-like and made way for the new wave.  Here they are –

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The new hosts of 106 & Park | http://www.bet.com

L-R –> Miss Mykie, Bow Wow, Paigion and Shorty Da Prince and yes, there are  four (count em, four) new hosts.

Mykel “Miss Mykie” Gray – I’m still not sure how to pronounce her first name, but this Houston native and Howard Univ. grad commands attention with a decidedly funky look (I’m loving the big hair) and infectious personality.

Bow Wow- “Mr. 106 & Park” himself is switching up the style a little bit, re-connecting with his core audience (and his peers) and keeping his name and face out in the music streets, while he collects a check and plans new moves. Can’t be mad at that.

Kimberly “Paigion” Walker- Again with a name I can’t pronounce and, well, “my name is my name.” A Detroit native, this Western Michigan Univ. grad started off as a high school reporter and turned into a local radio star. Now she’s bringing her talents to the big(ger TV) screen and a national audience. Nice.

Shorty Da Prince– This St. Louis born youngin’ who’s been in the business since he was 12 (!) was a popular radio host and industry regular before the 106 & Park gig. At 22, he’s young, eager and looks like a pleasant guy. Oh, he’s also bunned up with Paigion. Interesting.

Many congratulations to the new co-co-co-co hosts on the new opportunity- they were selected out what I can only imagine was a huge pool and it can only open more doors and make way for even greater opportunties. The real question though, is do you still watch 106 & Park? Will you?

“Riker’s Island DCPI’s Office” | http://www.nypost.com

So, while Homegirl NYC is all about the awesomeness of girls, we would be remiss not to mention the greatness of some guys. “We give props to those who deserve it and believe me, y’all he’s worth it

According to the NY Post (I know), basketball star Amar’e Stouemire, went to Rikers Island on Friday to “spit the truth to the young black youth,” speaking to a room full young men, ages 16 to 18, incarcerated at the facility. His talk, which was by all accounts well received, focused on encouraging them to think about their lives, to want better for themselves and make a real effort not to go back to jail once released.

Stoudemire, a power forward for the Knicks who receives just as much press for what he wears off the court as he does for how he plays on it, was on a panel with former basketball players John Wallace and Etan Thomas, Macolm Shabazz (grandson of Malcolm X), Styles P from the Lox and sports commentator Chris Broussard.

According to the Post, Stoudemire told the young men, “The plan for us is not to succeed, and it goes back to when there was slavery.” “What you got to do is look at yourself in the mirror and say: ‘What am I going to do so I will not be a number?’

Good question. I hope that in addition to their talk, the panelists stay involved and start (or continue) investing in finding real solutions, like building/providing support systems necessary to help ex-offenders really make changes in their lives.

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Plan B One-Step Emergency Contraception

In Case of Emergency | Plan B | http://www.planbonestep.com

So, in high school, a few things are clear. One is that there are kids having sex. Two is that there are kids not having sex. Three is that there are kids (in both of those groups) who don’t know what the hell they are doing. This is also true for college, btw.

We all make mistakes and decisions that aren’t always the best or safest for us, emotionally or physically. But for those in the having sex crew (or the everything but crew) some of those decisions can lead to STDs, HIV, or pregnancy. Condoms are the safest (cheapest, and easiest to get) bet for protecting as much as you can against all three, but there’s nothing wrong with having a backup  (the pill) or a back up to the back up, if you can afford it.

Unwanted diseases, well, you just get stuck with those. Some you can cure, others, not so much. Unwanted pregnancies, well, there you have some options. And the NYC Department of Education is trying to make one of those options more accessible.T

Word on the curb is that some New York City Public School students will now be able to get Plan B at their schools. Plan B is emergency contraception, a pill that you can take after having unprotected sex, or after whatever protection you used didn’t work, or after you’re raped,  to try to stop a pregnancy from occurring. It’s like back up to the back up. The trick is you have to take it within 72 hours (but the sooner the better) and it doesn’t always work.

The program is starting in 13 high schools and everyone seems to have an opinion. Some people are pissy because they say this encourages teens to have irresponsible (i.e. unprotected) sex; some people are supportive because they say teens need options and greater access,  and some don’t really feel a way about it, they just think it’s practical.

No one asked me my opinion, but am I for it? Hell yes. Am I a parent? Hell no. Does my opinion matter? Probably not, but I’ll share it anyway. Look, everything has pros and cons, but my opinion basically comes down to this- what is best for the young women this program is intended to serve? Greater Access. The end.

If you have any questions about what Plan B is, how it works and where you can get it. Here are some quick answers to help you get informed.

Khalya Hopkins

One of the most talked about articles in the first issue (and a fav with the GGE crew) was about Khalya Hopkins. If you haven’t read her story, you should, but in brief, she got pregnant when she was 14 (under some difficult circumstances) and didn’t let being a teenage mom stop her from finishing high school, going to graduate school and becoming a teacher. It wasn’t glamorous or easy, but she did it. Meeting her, talking to her and hearing her story, it’s not hard to understand why. She’s driven.

The first thing I noticed when I met Khalya, though, were her nails…and I had to ask her about them during our interview.  “In high school, the first year, you’re fresh meat,” she said. “Every guy is trying to bag you. The honors girls are the ‘it girls,’ if you’re cute, it was extra. We were in high demand.” After she had her daughter, though, things changed. “I was a real bum,” she said. “We went from 10 to zero on the radar, looking raggedy. It was a joke, our children were fly.”

"My parents told me, don't half ass anything," Khalya said. "That's my policy on everything."

Things started to pick up , she got a little money and she’d get her hair done. She started getting her nails done at 14 because she wanted to be creative. “In high school, your whole purpose in life is to out-do your friends, whether you say it or not. I wanted to be known for something other than my daughter.” So she let it be known that any guy she dated had to get her nails done. She started getting long tips in college and soon she became known for it, so she got as creative as she could. The reactions have been mixed- “That’s not professional,” and  “How can you work?” are common comments. There are people who want to take pictures and others who are repulsed. But Khalya says, “They’re not professional and I don’t ever pretend that they are, however, they are icebreakers,” and they get the conversation started. What she has to say is certainly worth it.

"You always want to have your own identity...if it's on your own terms, it's cool." Photograph by Valerie Caesar.

Some of the GGE girls really related to Khalya’s story (the boyfriend drama) and were happy to see her succeed. They also wanted to know how it ended—

Did her father’s boyfriend even get out of jail? Yes.

Are they back together? No.

What happened? Her parents tried to get her to reconcile with him because they wanted a traditional family unit and wanted to use it was a way to “de-gay” her, but the relationship did not work. She’s also gay, btw.

Can we contact her on facebook? Yes. Search for her name- Khalya Hopkins.

Shout out to some of the awesome Girls for Gender Equity...Meghan, Tulani, Nefertiti, Bria, Serne, Shantiqua, Shekeira, me. Up front: Jody Ann, Charicka, Shurayer and Kimberly.

Friday was a good day. Scratch that. Friday was a GREAT day! In fact, it was one of the best days I’ve had in a really long time. Why? Three letters…GGE. Girls for Gender Equity. They’re pro-girl, anti-gender-based violence, all-activist and generally awesome.

Ok, so knowing what they do is one thing…but meeting some of the girls in person…now that’s something else.

When I headed to the GGE offices in Brooklyn to meet with a group of about 10 high-school aged girls to talk about the magazine, I wasn’t sure what to expect. They probably didn’t, either. So, we started off the afternoon easy with introductions and some Q&A. Most of them were about 17 and went to schools from Brooklyn to the Bronx. Personalities all, some on two, others on ten. Lol.

After the quiet came the questions, about me and about the magazine— they wanted to know where I went to school,  where I live, how I got started, where I found the articles, how sales went, if I had worked with anyone else, if I wanted to work with anyone else, etc.

And after the questions, and some very real answers, came a level of comfort. They started reading the magazine and giving me feedback. Khalya’s triumph over teen pregnancy story was a fav. The dating abuse article got them fired up.  Hydeia’s article about living with HIV touched some. A few recognized Lo Anderson from a poetry reading and Priscilla “P.Star” Diaz from The Electric Company. We talked about things in the stories we related to and those we couldn’t understand. We laughed. We shared and we laughed some more.

Planning big big things...

The raw energy in that room was unlike anything I’ve ever seen and so we built on that and started planning. What exactly I won’t say just yet, but trust me when I say it’ll be well worth the wait.

During the Q & A Shantiqua, asked me a question that stuck with me long after I answered it. She wanted to know, “WHY do you do this?”

At the time, I explained it as best I could—because creating a magazine has been a dream of mine since I was teen, because it was exciting work, because I thought it mattered, etc. But after spending a few hours with them, the best answer I had, was that I did it for moments like those and for girls like them.

I hope they got it (or got something out of it) because I know I did. And to quote Tulani and Shantiqua, I left that evening feeling very motivated and “blessed”….”yeeeeeeessssss!”