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NJ Girls Elena Tsemberis, Emma Axelrod and Sammi Siegel start a petition for change | http://www.huffingtonpost.com

If you aren’t old enough to vote, you may not care about the next election. You should, but sometimes it’s hard to get excited about something that affects you so greatly and yet, you have no say in. I would, however, urge all of you to share your opinions and thoughts about the election with the adults  in your family and in your lives who are old enough to vote. Who knows? Your opinion may change (or help someone else figure out) the way they think and plan to vote.

So, while you may not watch the next presidential debate (I watched the first one with my 14-year-old nephew, so who knows), here’s one thing you should know about/reason why you should care ~ there will be a woman moderating the debate, thanks, in part, to three New Jersey high school students who petitioned for there to be one.

Basics- so the presidential debate has the two candidates (President Barack Obama and Republican nominee Mitt Romney) face off in a live televised discussion about the issues/where they stand/what their plan is for America. They are basically trying to convince those people who are undecided that they are the best person for the job and get the people who’ve already decided excited about showing up at the polls on November 6th. The debate is moderated by a journalist who puts on his/her impartiality fairness hat and tries to ask the questions that the American public wants to know and keep them each from talking over each other and going over their allotted response time. This happens to varying degrees of success.

The first debate, earlier this month, was moderated by Jim Lehrer and, if you’re interested, you can google what most people thought of it. (Basically, the president lamed out, Romney did his thing and the moderator didn’t moderate). The vice-presidential debate, held last week, was much better and an actual debate. (Vice President Biden got all in Congressman Paul Ryan’s specifics, Ryan made some pointed jabs and the moderator ~ O.G. journalist Martha Raddatz  ~ held it down.

The debate tonight is going to be the final presidential debate, where the president and Mitt Romney face off again. And it’s really important for both to do well. The point of all of this that may matter to you is that CNN reporter Candy Crowley is moderating it ~ this is he first time a woman has done so in 20 years and is partly due to the petition started by Emma Axelrod, Elena Tsemberis and Sammi Siegel. After learning in their high school civics class that the last woman to moderate a presidential debate was in 1992 (!), they stated a petition at change.org. The petition was a huge success, garnered over 118,000 signatures and lots of support from public figures for their call for a woman moderator. And, well, they got their wish.

“It’s important for teenage girls to see women with political power,” Elena Tsemberis told MassLive.com. “The more we only see men in positions of authority, the more girls teach themselves to believe we’re not as worthy or important or capable as men.” Source

Side note: If you have an issue you’re really passionate about, you might want to consider starting a change.org petition. Some of them really take off and who knows, once people know what you’re fighting for/against, additional help may come pouring in.

Hey all,

I know it’s been a while, but I’m back (I know, again). Truth is, starting this magazine (and trying to make it pop) has been a lot of hard work, even harder than I anticipated. Truth moment? I thought that having a good  great idea was enough. That all I had to do was to get the magazine finished (which took long enough), printed, and the world would recognize its awesomeness and praise/award me appropriately. Yeah. Welp, the world got me good. And for a minute there I got caught up in comparing my struggle to other people’s “successes” and I got bummed out. I doubted myself and I wondered if it was even worth it. I’m here, so what changed? Well, a few things. First, I met an amazing group of young women (Girls for Gender Equity, how y’all doin) and got excited about the mission of this magazine again. Like, I really got excited again. Then, I took a moment to honestly re-evaluate what I had done and why it didn’t work. And when I say I took a moment, I mean I read and researched and thought critically about what I was trying to do versus what I was actually doing. I switched up my game plan and recommitted myself to doing this work. So, I’m here. And I’m back to basics. That means, I’ve stopped focusing on all the awards I think I deserve and  all the great things to come and I’m working on reaching these girls, right now.

“Please help us find a home. We’re really good magazines. Honest.”

That said, I have a lot of copies of the first issue left. I’m not really concerned with making a profit selling them, as that ship has sailed. But I would like to get the issues out to some young women who might enjoy them. So, I’d you know of any groups, schools, programs, homes, centers, etc. where I can send a packet of magazines, please let me know.

Also, stay tuned. Because I’m going to be blogging about the process of getting this issue of the magazine out and, well, I plan to do so honestly, so you might not want to miss it.

~Until next time

Shout out to some of the awesome Girls for Gender Equity...Meghan, Tulani, Nefertiti, Bria, Serne, Shantiqua, Shekeira, me. Up front: Jody Ann, Charicka, Shurayer and Kimberly.

Friday was a good day. Scratch that. Friday was a GREAT day! In fact, it was one of the best days I’ve had in a really long time. Why? Three letters…GGE. Girls for Gender Equity. They’re pro-girl, anti-gender-based violence, all-activist and generally awesome.

Ok, so knowing what they do is one thing…but meeting some of the girls in person…now that’s something else.

When I headed to the GGE offices in Brooklyn to meet with a group of about 10 high-school aged girls to talk about the magazine, I wasn’t sure what to expect. They probably didn’t, either. So, we started off the afternoon easy with introductions and some Q&A. Most of them were about 17 and went to schools from Brooklyn to the Bronx. Personalities all, some on two, others on ten. Lol.

After the quiet came the questions, about me and about the magazine— they wanted to know where I went to school,  where I live, how I got started, where I found the articles, how sales went, if I had worked with anyone else, if I wanted to work with anyone else, etc.

And after the questions, and some very real answers, came a level of comfort. They started reading the magazine and giving me feedback. Khalya’s triumph over teen pregnancy story was a fav. The dating abuse article got them fired up.  Hydeia’s article about living with HIV touched some. A few recognized Lo Anderson from a poetry reading and Priscilla “P.Star” Diaz from The Electric Company. We talked about things in the stories we related to and those we couldn’t understand. We laughed. We shared and we laughed some more.

Planning big big things...

The raw energy in that room was unlike anything I’ve ever seen and so we built on that and started planning. What exactly I won’t say just yet, but trust me when I say it’ll be well worth the wait.

During the Q & A Shantiqua, asked me a question that stuck with me long after I answered it. She wanted to know, “WHY do you do this?”

At the time, I explained it as best I could—because creating a magazine has been a dream of mine since I was teen, because it was exciting work, because I thought it mattered, etc. But after spending a few hours with them, the best answer I had, was that I did it for moments like those and for girls like them.

I hope they got it (or got something out of it) because I know I did. And to quote Tulani and Shantiqua, I left that evening feeling very motivated and “blessed”….”yeeeeeeessssss!”