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Some thoughts on issue 1

One of the reasons I wanted to start a print magazine in a digital age (aside from always just really wanting to do it), was to reach those girls who don’t always have access to a computer or as much time to spend online reading magazines. So, part of the way I was going to reach out was to make magazines available to girls in detention centers, foster homes, emergency shelters, etc.

A few months ago, I reached out the the NYC Department of ACS to see about donating some of the (many) magazines I had left from the first issue to some girls who may want/need reading material. I connected with someone there who gave me instructions on sending the magazines and off they went. I sent two boxes- the first had about 30 or so magazines, and the second was closer to 75. My contact as ACS offered to distribute a questionnaire to the girls about the magazine, so I made one up and emailed it to her. Mostly, I was trying to get a feel for a) the reader’s demographics; b) what they thought about the content of the magazine and c) how they felt about what they read.

One of the last emails I received from my contact there indicated that the feedback was great, and a month or so later, I got a packet in the mail containing the completed surveys. I was definitely more nervous about opening it than I thought I would be, but I was excited to see what they said. I had shared the magazine with teen girls previously, but sometimes, feedback is different when you give it face-to-face versus writing your thoughts down on paper and sending them. So, this was a first for me. And, well, the responses definitely did not disappoint.

Here are just a few things I learned:

1) Most thought that the articles were too long. (I did, too, and have since learned how to be a better editor).

2) A few people spent just a few minutes reading the magazine, while others spent anywhere from 30 minutes to “a few hours” reading this issue – even one reader who isn’t “really a magazine type of girl.” (!!!)

3) Not everyone could relate to the articles or took something away from reading it or even would read another issue. But a couple of girls did express interest in contributing to a future issue. (Awesome)

4) At least two girls weren’t here for the “race/ethnicity” question and think of themselves as “human.” (I kind of loved that)

As I wrap up the second issue, I remember the process of putting together the first one and I see how I’ve made certain editorial and business decisions this time around that I think will open some more doors and appeal to more readers. And on this second day of the new year, I am so grateful and thankful to the 14-17 year old readers at NYC Dept of ACS who took the time to read the magazine and offer me thoughtful feedback.

One of the last questions I asked on the survey was, “What did you take away from reading it, if anything?” And a 17-year-old responded, “I took that being a teenager is hard but there are things you can do to get by.”

Amen.

Woman Moderator Petition

NJ Girls Elena Tsemberis, Emma Axelrod and Sammi Siegel start a petition for change | http://www.huffingtonpost.com

If you aren’t old enough to vote, you may not care about the next election. You should, but sometimes it’s hard to get excited about something that affects you so greatly and yet, you have no say in. I would, however, urge all of you to share your opinions and thoughts about the election with the adults  in your family and in your lives who are old enough to vote. Who knows? Your opinion may change (or help someone else figure out) the way they think and plan to vote.

So, while you may not watch the next presidential debate (I watched the first one with my 14-year-old nephew, so who knows), here’s one thing you should know about/reason why you should care ~ there will be a woman moderating the debate, thanks, in part, to three New Jersey high school students who petitioned for there to be one.

Basics- so the presidential debate has the two candidates (President Barack Obama and Republican nominee Mitt Romney) face off in a live televised discussion about the issues/where they stand/what their plan is for America. They are basically trying to convince those people who are undecided that they are the best person for the job and get the people who’ve already decided excited about showing up at the polls on November 6th. The debate is moderated by a journalist who puts on his/her impartiality fairness hat and tries to ask the questions that the American public wants to know and keep them each from talking over each other and going over their allotted response time. This happens to varying degrees of success.

The first debate, earlier this month, was moderated by Jim Lehrer and, if you’re interested, you can google what most people thought of it. (Basically, the president lamed out, Romney did his thing and the moderator didn’t moderate). The vice-presidential debate, held last week, was much better and an actual debate. (Vice President Biden got all in Congressman Paul Ryan’s specifics, Ryan made some pointed jabs and the moderator ~ O.G. journalist Martha Raddatz  ~ held it down.

The debate tonight is going to be the final presidential debate, where the president and Mitt Romney face off again. And it’s really important for both to do well. The point of all of this that may matter to you is that CNN reporter Candy Crowley is moderating it ~ this is he first time a woman has done so in 20 years and is partly due to the petition started by Emma Axelrod, Elena Tsemberis and Sammi Siegel. After learning in their high school civics class that the last woman to moderate a presidential debate was in 1992 (!), they stated a petition at change.org. The petition was a huge success, garnered over 118,000 signatures and lots of support from public figures for their call for a woman moderator. And, well, they got their wish.

“It’s important for teenage girls to see women with political power,” Elena Tsemberis told MassLive.com. “The more we only see men in positions of authority, the more girls teach themselves to believe we’re not as worthy or important or capable as men.” Source

Side note: If you have an issue you’re really passionate about, you might want to consider starting a change.org petition. Some of them really take off and who knows, once people know what you’re fighting for/against, additional help may come pouring in.

I almost forgot-

Last week, Terrence J and Rocsi said goodbye to the 106 & Park stage after seven years. Terrence J. has a new gig hosting Entertainment Tonight (definitely a good look) and Rocsi is pursing other opportunities, like acting, I believe.

106 & Park

Terrence J & Rocsi host their last show on the 106 & Park stage | http://www.bet.com

The BET crew (old and new) sent them off proper-like and made way for the new wave.  Here they are –

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The new hosts of 106 & Park | http://www.bet.com

L-R –> Miss Mykie, Bow Wow, Paigion and Shorty Da Prince and yes, there are  four (count em, four) new hosts.

Mykel “Miss Mykie” Gray – I’m still not sure how to pronounce her first name, but this Houston native and Howard Univ. grad commands attention with a decidedly funky look (I’m loving the big hair) and infectious personality.

Bow Wow- “Mr. 106 & Park” himself is switching up the style a little bit, re-connecting with his core audience (and his peers) and keeping his name and face out in the music streets, while he collects a check and plans new moves. Can’t be mad at that.

Kimberly “Paigion” Walker- Again with a name I can’t pronounce and, well, “my name is my name.” A Detroit native, this Western Michigan Univ. grad started off as a high school reporter and turned into a local radio star. Now she’s bringing her talents to the big(ger TV) screen and a national audience. Nice.

Shorty Da Prince– This St. Louis born youngin’ who’s been in the business since he was 12 (!) was a popular radio host and industry regular before the 106 & Park gig. At 22, he’s young, eager and looks like a pleasant guy. Oh, he’s also bunned up with Paigion. Interesting.

Many congratulations to the new co-co-co-co hosts on the new opportunity- they were selected out what I can only imagine was a huge pool and it can only open more doors and make way for even greater opportunties. The real question though, is do you still watch 106 & Park? Will you?

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Shout out to some of the awesome Girls for Gender Equity...Meghan, Tulani, Nefertiti, Bria, Serne, Shantiqua, Shekeira, me. Up front: Jody Ann, Charicka, Shurayer and Kimberly.

Friday was a good day. Scratch that. Friday was a GREAT day! In fact, it was one of the best days I’ve had in a really long time. Why? Three letters…GGE. Girls for Gender Equity. They’re pro-girl, anti-gender-based violence, all-activist and generally awesome.

Ok, so knowing what they do is one thing…but meeting some of the girls in person…now that’s something else.

When I headed to the GGE offices in Brooklyn to meet with a group of about 10 high-school aged girls to talk about the magazine, I wasn’t sure what to expect. They probably didn’t, either. So, we started off the afternoon easy with introductions and some Q&A. Most of them were about 17 and went to schools from Brooklyn to the Bronx. Personalities all, some on two, others on ten. Lol.

After the quiet came the questions, about me and about the magazine— they wanted to know where I went to school,  where I live, how I got started, where I found the articles, how sales went, if I had worked with anyone else, if I wanted to work with anyone else, etc.

And after the questions, and some very real answers, came a level of comfort. They started reading the magazine and giving me feedback. Khalya’s triumph over teen pregnancy story was a fav. The dating abuse article got them fired up.  Hydeia’s article about living with HIV touched some. A few recognized Lo Anderson from a poetry reading and Priscilla “P.Star” Diaz from The Electric Company. We talked about things in the stories we related to and those we couldn’t understand. We laughed. We shared and we laughed some more.

Planning big big things...

The raw energy in that room was unlike anything I’ve ever seen and so we built on that and started planning. What exactly I won’t say just yet, but trust me when I say it’ll be well worth the wait.

During the Q & A Shantiqua, asked me a question that stuck with me long after I answered it. She wanted to know, “WHY do you do this?”

At the time, I explained it as best I could—because creating a magazine has been a dream of mine since I was teen, because it was exciting work, because I thought it mattered, etc. But after spending a few hours with them, the best answer I had, was that I did it for moments like those and for girls like them.

I hope they got it (or got something out of it) because I know I did. And to quote Tulani and Shantiqua, I left that evening feeling very motivated and “blessed”….”yeeeeeeessssss!”